Re: I don't know why I don't play.
Posted: Sat Sep 19, 2015 10:16 pm
Brains are weird.
I think actually stepping away for too long makes it worse, despite what everyone thinks. You get in the habit of not playing and then you don't want to anymore even when you want to.
Usually for me at least, the thing that triggers getting back into things is for me to actually play them for some reason, and THEN I start wanting to play more.
And don't talk about how you're about to come back and play again, or about how you really should come back and play again, or anything along those lines. It does a weird thing where it makes it less likely to happen. Especially if you say "should". Nobody does things they "should" do. Even if you think you "should" play and then you play, you'll have played because you should have, not because you wanted to, and your brain won't think you like the game after all.
(Or maybe everything I just said isn't true at all and I'm full of it. YMMV.)
I think actually stepping away for too long makes it worse, despite what everyone thinks. You get in the habit of not playing and then you don't want to anymore even when you want to.
Usually for me at least, the thing that triggers getting back into things is for me to actually play them for some reason, and THEN I start wanting to play more.
And don't talk about how you're about to come back and play again, or about how you really should come back and play again, or anything along those lines. It does a weird thing where it makes it less likely to happen. Especially if you say "should". Nobody does things they "should" do. Even if you think you "should" play and then you play, you'll have played because you should have, not because you wanted to, and your brain won't think you like the game after all.
(Or maybe everything I just said isn't true at all and I'm full of it. YMMV.)